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FAQs and expert advice about flowers & bouquets

Here is a selection of Q&As from Your South Wales Wedding magazine whether it be about flowers, hair and makeup, fashion, wedding themes, health & beauty, cakes, stationery, legal advice. If you would like your question answered by our experts, please email it to editor@yoursouthwales.wedding

In Bloom

In Bloom

Q How do we choose a colour palette for our wedding flowers?
A Rhian Rees says: Deciding on which colour palette to choose for your wedding can seem overwhelming. Take the time to look through images and start collating a little album of your favourites. Leave it for a few weeks, then go back and look again! Remember, flowers look so much better if they're in season, as they are fresher, bouncier and have more personality.

Tropical shades can look amazing, but if you're going to use them in your flowers, then you will need to use greenery to allow the colours to pop. I love using natural elements that are brightly coloured to give a little element of surprise while keeping the flowers authentic. This is a great palette if you're going for contemporary flowers.

Pastels are also popular. This can mean any pale colour, not just pink and blue. Think pale lemons, oranges, and pinks. These colours work so well together, as they are fresh yet subtle.

Rhian Rees, Wild and Fabulous Flowers

Hello Petal

Hello Petal

Q We are on a tight budget but still want beautiful stand-out flowers on our big day. Do you have any ideas on how we can save money?
A Elisa Hsiao says: The cost of fresh wedding flowers can be a big expense, and with the cost of living rising, careful planning is key. Consider artificial flowers; these are realistic-looking, and you can still get the floral style and design you want for your big day without the large price tag. Plus, you don't have to worry about any damage or dress stains; they are allergen-free and can last forever as home décor after the wedding day.

Repurpose and re-use your venue decorations. It takes a lot of work to create the arrangements to dress your venue, so using your flowers in a two-area set-up will help stretch your budget. Ask your venue stylist, coordinator, or a trusted family member to move items from the ceremony room to the reception area during the break. For example, pew end flowers can be reused as table centrepieces and registrar table displays can be moved to the top table.

Dried flowers can be added to faux versions. This works well for modern and boho-themed weddings, and these bouquets also have a longer shelf life than fresh options.

Elisa Hsiao, Elyn Boutique

Seasonal Romance

Seasonal Romance

Q We're trying to decide what time of year to get married but can't make a decision. What flowers are available each season and are there any ways of saving money?
A Rhian Rees says: Firstly, there is never a bad time to get married when you love each other! If you have set your heart on wild meadow flowers, then June through to August would be best, or if you love ranunculus and anemones, then it needs to be spring. Seasonality is so important with flowers and getting the best for your money. If you set your heart on a specific flower, it may be out of season and therefore difficult to source, which will make it more expensive. For example, peonies out of season would cost a florist £3.40 a stem, but in season it would be half that. Flowers are always healthier, stronger, and more beautiful in season, so go with nature. Trust the advice that your florist gives you. Set a colour palette and a style of flowers that you love but be willing to accept alternatives that work with your design. Sometimes specific flowers are just not available, and your florist will know the most cost effective and suitable flower to choose instead.

It can be overwhelming deciding when to get married, and the choice of flowers seems almost limitless, but by deciding to go with flowers that are in season, you are guaranteed your florals will be in their prime

Rhian Rees, Wild and Fabulous Flowers

Floral fancy

Floral fancy

Q What are the latest flower trends?
A Rhian Rees says: A very popular theme is using a single colour palette with various shades in bouquets and large displays. For a relaxed wedding vibe, using a single variety of flowers tied with a ribbon looks great. Very little or no greenery is used with these designs, as it's all about the flowers.

I'm loving that instead of using bud vases on tables, simple ikebana-style arrangements are being used, these work particularly well with footed bowl arrangements. Using beautiful containers for your flowers will enhance the displays and you can use them time and time again.

For brides, it's less about a full flower crown and more focused on flower headbands and fresh flower headpieces. These are comfortable to wear, can be delicate or full of blooms and are very practical for flowergirls too.

Jewel tones are popular especially as Viva Magenta is the Pantone Colour of this year, so go bold and bright if you want to follow the latest fashion trends.

Statement installations such as flower arches, columns, or hanging flower clouds are a must. These are the perfect backdrop for ceremony photos and give the wow factor at any wedding.

We have also noticed that couples are more aware of sustainability with it comes to their flowers, which means not using floral foam and opting for local and British-grown seasonal flowers where possible.

Rhian Rees, Wild and Fabulous Flowers

Perfect palette picks

Perfect palette picks

Q My wife-to-be and I are getting married next spring, and we'd like our bouquets to be different but also complement each other. Do you have any suggestions?
A Rhian Rees says: As a florist, I'm very aware of how flowers will look in photos. I always consider the blooms selected, styles and colours as they need to complement each other, or they will look strange when seen in a photograph. I think the same rule applies for two bouquets; they can be sisters and not twins!

Lots of people choose to have their favourite flowers in their bouquet, these can be different but in the same colour palette. I always like to reflect a person's personality in their flowers, so maybe one bouquet could be a little larger and wilder than the other. Maybe one could be a cascading bouquet and one front facing, while still keeping within the same colour theme.

Bouquets can have wonderful movement, life, and scent, which can be incorporated into two similar but different bouquets.

Rhian Rees, Wild and Fabulous Flowers

Eco-friendly flowers

Eco-friendly flowers

Q We want beautiful flowers at our wedding, but also want them to be sustainable. Do you have any suggestions on how we can do this?
A Rhian Rees says: Your wedding flowers play a huge part in your day, as they bring life, scent, colour, emotion and a sense of celebration and occasion. You can have all of this and still be sustainable.

Chat with your chosen florist about seasonal options. Blooms that are in season have been grown without the use of extra heat, thus not using power to grow them. Ask them about the methods that they use. A sustainable florist would never use floral foam as it's incredibly bad for the environment. There are compostable and biodegradable alternatives out there and old-fashioned mechanics are now in fashion again. Flower frogs, chicken wire and mossages all work just as well as floral foam and are planet friendly.

If you're getting married between February and October, then there is the option to use British farmer's flowers. There is a website called Flowers from the Farm (www.flowersfromthefarm.co.uk), which lists all local growers. When you choose your florist just ask them where they source their blooms from. Here at Wild and Fabulous Flowers, we try and be as sustainable as possible, and we work with local growers to source seasonal options.

Rhian Rees, Wild and Fabulous Flowers

Trend setter

Trend setter

Q What flower trends do you think will be popular in 2023?
A Emma Cross says: Next year, we will see more texture rather than just one type of flower, which will add more interest and depth to bridal bouquets.

We will see brighter colour choices in 2023 with couples mixing pastels with brighter hues, creating pops of colour.

The above will work hand in hand with flower preservation, giving resin blocks and frames more depth and variety to work with.

Emma Cross, Encapsulated Memories

Pick of the bunch

Pick of the bunch

Q What questions should we ask a florist before booking?
A Rhian Rees says: Before you make an enquiry the most important thing to do is to spend some time researching the style of flowers that you like. Look at different designs and colours and go with your heart. During your research, you will come across a florist or two whose designs make you smile. These are the ones for you! Give them a ring or drop an email and arrange to have a chat. Before booking, ask the following questions:

Are they free on your wedding day? There's not much point running through everything to discover they are already booked.

How many weddings are they doing on that day? Some florists can fit in three bookings in a day, so I would question whether this means your flowers could be a little rushed.

What is their style? Florists are creative people, and our personality and the way we see flowers will show in our designs. Look at lots of photos to see if the supplier is a match for your big day. Do they deliver, is there a charge and have they worked at your venue before? Depending on how much you are spending on your flowers you may be charged for delivery. This is normal. Florists do not make a fortune out of their flowers, and costs are really high at the moment. It can be an advantage if the florist has been to your venue before. If not, then a good florist will visit the venue and chat with the managers about what they can and cannot do and what time they can have access.

Do they use any locally grown flowers? We are lucky to have some amazing local flower farmers near us, so see if your supplier uses these. Ask for in-season flowers as they look so much better than options that should be in bloom months earlier or later.

Are they a sustainable florist? It's really important that floral foam is no longer used in the industry.

Can I have specific flowers? This is a hard one. I always say to my clients that we can choose a colour palette, and then they have to trust me! Trying to get a particular rose, tulip or peony can be impossible. Depending on weather conditions, some flowers are just not available, but there are so many other wonderful options to choose from, so keep an open mind. Your relationship with your florist needs to be based on trust. They are professionals, and will do their very best for you.

Can they take my flowers to a different location on the same day? Some florists will do this but will expect a fee. Be realistic though, if a huge floral installation has been created around a church porch, that is going to have to stay there! If you want to re-use your ceremony flowers for later in the day, then chat through the possibilities with your florist.

Do they provide any other décor? Lots of florists have gorgeous candles, lanterns etc, and if you like their flowers, you'll probably have the same taste. It's always worth asking if you can hire them out.

Do I need to pay a deposit? Generally yes, you will be sent a booking form and asked for a deposit.

Can I change my mind? I ask all my couples a month before to re-send me some images of the flowers they like. It's often the case that they have shifted slightly, but please don't expect to be able to change your mind really close to the wedding day. The florist may well have pre-ordered your flowers and some farmers even grow them specifically for individual weddings.

Can I see a mock-up of my bouquet? I would honestly say it's not necessary. The chances are when you book your florist it will be a different season to your wedding day, and so the flowers available will be completely different. Every bride's bouquet is made with care and love and is unique. It would be impossible to recreate the exact bouquet, so as I said before, please trust your florist and then on the day, you will fall in love with not just your new husband or wife but your flowers too.

Rhian Rees, Wild and Fabulous Flowers

Summer loving

Summer loving

Q What flowers and colours will be available for our summer wedding?
A Rhian Rees says: The most important thing to keep in mind when choosing flowers is to always go with the seasons. With sustainability being so important, try and choose locally-grown flowers wherever possible. There are some fantastic local growers out there, head over to Flowers from the Farm (www.flowersfromthefarm.org.uk) to see options in your area.

If you're getting married in the summer, then you have a huge choice! Early summer flowers, by which I mean June and early July, include peonies, roses, astilbe, lupins, nigella, cornflowers, ammi, delphiniums, honesty seed heads, foxgloves, phlox, sweet peas, snapdragons, jasmine, achillea, alchemilla and orlaya, to name just a few.

Flowers from July to early September include hydrangeas, sweet peas, snapdragons, roses, asters, achillea, gladioli, dahlias, chrysanthemums, cosmos, amni, gauras, zinnias, cosmos, rudbeckia, echinacea, scabious, sunflowers, strawflowers, verbena, nerines and many more!

As far as colours go, it really is down to the style of wedding you're having. Relaxed nuptial calls for lovely mixtures of colours and textures. These can be soft summery pastels or hot and fiery late summer oranges, pinks and reds. For a more formal wedding, you may choose a more streamlined range.

I would say that sometimes a very sharp yellow can look too harsh on a hot summer's day. In my opinion, yellow work best in spring. I always advise my clients to not get too hung up on having a specific flower, but to trust your supplier to create something beautiful within your chosen colour palette. Sometimes specific flowers are not available due to the weather not behaving as it should. When choosing your flowers, you should always go with your heart and trust your florist to create bespoke arrangements for your special day.

Rhian Rees, Wild and Fabulous Flowers

Festive romance

Festive romance

Q How can we incorporate Christmas touches into our flowers without it being over the top?
A Hayley Rees says: Lots of foliage is key to making your Christmas-themed day ooze with the magic of the season. Asparagus fern, pine, spruce, redwood and holly are fantastic options for the basis of your wedding flowers. These can be made into all sorts of things but really stand out as wreaths for your centrepieces or as garlands to adorn lavish staircases and fireplaces. Not to mention, the scent combined with cinnamon sticks is truly delicious! Teamed with seasonal flowers such as hellebores, also known as the Christmas rose, mistletoe and white bouvardia, you can bring the snowy scene to life and create a delicate seasonal themed wedding without being over the top.

Hayley Rees, Misselthwaite Flowers

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