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Q. We're getting ready to book our entertainment, but we're not sure where to start or what we should be asking suppliers. Do you have any suggestions?
A. Martin Goddard says: With so many options to choose from, it can be a tricky task. Once you've decided on the type of entertainment you want, it's important to stay in touch with your provider in the lead up to the wedding. Make sure you run your plans by them at least once, whether it's to advise them on any intricate ideas you have or just to let them know the basic schedule for the day. Creating fun is an essential part of entertainment etiquette, so if you have anything in mind, just run it by them.
Ask your chosen supplier if your wedding date is available? Is it possible to meet before booking? Have you performed at the venue before? How much do you charge and what's included? How much deposit do you require and do you have a payment plan?
Most professionals will have answered these questions hundreds of times before, so you shouldn't feel bad about getting in touch, even if it's for the simplest thing. They will always be glad to hear from you, especially if it's for something that will make your entertainment better than you could have imagined.
Q. My partner and I can't decide on a song for our first dance. I love 80s rock while she prefers smooth jazz. Do you have any tips on how we can decide?
A. Martin Goddard says: - Before making a decision, make sure you can dance to the song. It's vital that you feel comfortable enough to move to the music. For instance, some smooth jazz songs have strange beats, and some have none at all, which will make dancing extremely difficult.
- If you feel uncomfortable slow dancing in front of your friends and family, then don't force it. Don't do anything that puts you out of your comfort zone and keep things as real as possible.
- Choose a tune that relates to you both and combines your personalities.
Q. We want some fun entertainment at our upcoming wedding. Do you have any ideas?
A. June Gould says: Think carefully about the length of your wedding, if you want activities that bring your guests together and what your venue will be able to accommodate before booking.
The important thing to remember is not to over-plan your entertainment. If you're having a long meal, it may be worth booking a magician, singing waiters or a caricaturist to help reduce awkwardness for people who don't know each other very well.
An experienced DJ will choose suitable music to add ambience and suit the mood of the room.
Activities such as the shoe game will allow your guests to learn more about you as a couple.
If you're worried about being the centre of attention for the first dance, then tell your DJ so they can invite everyone to join in to reduce embarrassment.
If your venue needs to be transformed for the wedding breakfast, then I suggest you provide outdoor games such as Jenga or Twister. This is also a good time for people to sit and chat and get to know each other better. Alternatively, you could hire a selfie wizard which your guests can use to take fun photos.
Q. My wife-to-be and I can't decide between a jazz band or something more modern. Do you have any suggestions?
A. Martin Goddard says: Jazz music is sophisticated, and the performers are usually immaculately dressed. If you're having a stylish and elegant affair, then a fantastic jazz band would set the right precedent for your guests. Remember, the performer only does half the work – it's up to the audience to do the rest. When you picture your big day, are you fingersnapping to cool jazz or dancing uncontrollably to Mr Brightside? Answer that question, and you'll know what type of supplier to book.
Q. Do you have any suggestions for a fun way to entertain our guests?
A. Marcus Bell says: - Think about the age range attending. You'll want to create a fun, lively atmosphere that appeals to everyone.
- Get creative! Find a source of entertainment that fits your theme and gets people talking.
- Here at The Vale Vintage Booth Co., we provide instant photos from our mirror photo booth and give your nearest and dearest a lovely memento to take home from the big day.
Marcus Bell , Vale Vintage Booth
Q. We're on a tight budget but still want first-class entertainment. Do you have any ideas on how we can save money?
A. Martin Goddard says: Here at Music HQ, we see many couples making the mistake of booking their entertainment last, but keep in mind that without it your guests may end up bored.
I suggest you save money in other areas and book a supplier that will help create a fun atmosphere that will keep your guests talking long after the big day.
Your friends and family won't recall the lovely chiffon chair covers you picked out, but they will remember dancing all night long.
Q. We're looking for a singer for our upcoming nuptials, but we're worried about booking someone online we've never met. Do you have any advice?
A. Emma Sanders-Burt says: - Before booking any suppliers, make sure they have professional recordings on their website that you can listen to.
- They should have a wealth of experience and an impressive portfolio.
- Make sure they're happy to meet you in person pre-booking.
- Check their deposit policy before hiring them.
Emma Sanders-Burt , email@example.com
Q. We're looking for some fun entertainment for our reception. Do you have any ideas?
A. Emma Daley says: Wedding entertainment used to be limited to just a DJ and dancefloor, but as weddings have adapted, so has the way we entertain our guests. If you want to make an impression, I suggest you look for something quirky and unusual for your reception, such as a photo booth.
- Hire a booth that complements your theme or colour scheme. Opt for a stylish and classy look that's sure to wow your friends and family.
- If your venue is tight on space, inform your supplier, and they'll help you make room.
- Most businesses will provide fun props to tie in with your theme.
- Choose a company that can instantly print the images for you. It makes a wonderful addition to your guest book or as a gift for your loved ones to take home.
- Customise the photo booth frame with your initials, wedding date or personalised hashtag.
Q. My hubby-to-be and I are looking to book a harpist for our big day. We've created a playlist of our favourite songs would you be able to learn them for our upcoming nuptials?
A. Katie Bayliss says: Choosing your music selection is a big decision and it's important you make the right one!
- My repertoire has more than 100 songs so it's likely I can already play your favourite song. If not I take requests free of charge to ensure you have the tunes you love.
- I cover most genres including pop, rock, Disney, Welsh and classical.
- To bring your playlist together and ensure you're happy with your choices I offer a free consultation.
Q. My hubby-to-be and I are looking to book a band for our big day. We've created a playlist of our favourite songs. Would they be able to learn them for our nuptials?
A. Martin Goddard says: Here are my top tips:
- Look online at suppliers repertoires and music videos to see whether any of them play your favourite tunes.
- Choose an experienced performer who's able to play a large selection of genres.
- Listen to your supplier. They will have lots of experience and will be able to give you feedback and advice on your song selection. Just remember that you might love a single by Napalm Death but that your grandparents are unlikely to boogie to it on the dancefloor!
- No band will expect you to choose their entire set list, but they will always take your favourites into consideration.
- Try to think less about the exact tunes you want to hear and focus on finding a performer who will create a great atmosphere on the night.