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Q. We're looking for a wedding photographer, but we're a bit worried about booking someone online that we've never met. Do you have any suggestions?
A. Carmel Teresa McCabe says: Photographers should never have a problem meeting in person before the big day. I believe it's important that you gel with your chosen supplier, after all, you don't want to share one of the most important days of your life with a stranger.
- Never be afraid to ask questions before committing. Ask if and how long your photographer will provisionally hold your date and if they offer a no-obligation consultation before booking.
- Most importantly read the reviews from past couples to get a better insight into the company.
Carmel Teresa McCabe
Q. We're getting married next spring and would like some shots that reflect the season. Do you have any suggestions?
A. Lucy Parker says: Firstly, it might be useful to research places near your venue that you want to take photographs at. Mention them to your photographer, so they can go and visit before the big day. Don't be afraid to tell your chosen supplier your ideas and the look you want to achieve. Look for locations with beautiful spring flowers that are beginning to blossom, parks, fields and beaches with sand dunes. I encourage my couples to think of their favourite place that they may want to visit during the day.
I love all things natural, so I get my couples outside to make the most of the weather – even if it's a rainy day. I have a clear brolly in my car at all times so we can make the most of every situation.
Incorporate spring into your theme with pastel bouquets, seasonal favours and flowers. It's always fun to get your bridesmaids involved and get some cute outdoor photos.
Q. We're getting ready to book our photographer and were wondering how we can keep the price down without compromising on quality?
A. Carmel Ensor says: Sticking to a budget is easily achievable, here are my top tips:
- Research is key! Don't be afraid to ask plenty of questions and see what different suppliers offer. Does the photographer charge for extras that you're not interested in such as albums? If you're creative, consider purchasing a digital package and making your own album.
- Photographers will often offer lower rates at the weekdays or off-peak times. Keep an eye out for cheeky offers around the holiday season too! I always offer discounts for the new year and have seen other suppliers do the same around Christmas and Valentine's Day.
- Visit weddings fairs as they often have offers galore!
Q. My wife-to-be and I are getting married next December, and we're worried about the weather ruining our photographs. Do you have any suggestions?
A. Peter Morgan says: Couples always worry about whether the weather will have an impact on their photographs. Choose a supplier and venue that can cater for all conditions. Expect the worst and plan for the best, and you'll be fine regardless of what Mother Nature throws at you. A good photographer will have assessed the location before the big day and looked at backup options. Bring a large white umbrella that can be incorporated into your pictures.
Q. We're having a Christmas wedding and want to incorporate the season into our photographs. Do you have any ideas of how we can capture wintry images?
A. Michelle Huggleston says: As a wedding photographer, it's my job to work with what you've booked in terms of location and venue. For images with a wintry feel, use your venue as a backdrop and incorporate the time of year into your décor and colour scheme. Your photographs should look cosy and warm, so think of Christmas trees with twinkly lights and stone fireplaces with a green garland across it.
If you're lucky enough to have good weather, pop outside and take some pictures of you snuggled up together.
Q. Booking a photographer is the next thing on our list, but we're worried about booking someone online we've never met. How can we overcome this?
A. James Matthews says: - With the number of photographers available, it's understandable that you're feeling overwhelmed. I get a lot of bookings from brides I've never met before the big day. Give your potential supplier a call and ask questions. You can even FaceTime or Skype if you find that easier.
- Make sure you read reviews carefully. Do you they feel genuine, and can they be verified? - Can the company supply a copy of its insurance? Most venues insist on seeing it before the big day.
- Find out how many weddings they've photographed.
- Make sure you're comfortable with their style.
- Above all, go with your instinct. If the price seems too good to be true, then it often is.
Q. We're getting married this autumn and would like some shots that reflect the season. Do you have any suggestions?
A. Neil Williams says: - Take some time away from your guests, and make the most of the weather.
- Ask your friends and family to throw coloured leaves instead of confetti.
- Decorate the venue in seasonal hues.
- Opt for festoon lighting to create a romantic atmosphere.
- Don't panic about the possibility of rain. If it pours, embrace it. Photographs in bad weather can create drama, especially with an autumnal backdrop.
Q. We want lovely photographs, but we're limited by our budget. Do you have any suggestions?
A. Emily Wells says: - Style – Take some time to research and discover what type of photography you both like. - Cost – Decide on a budget, and remember you get what you pay for.
- What's important to you – Think about what part of the day means the most to you and your partner. If it's the ceremony, you could save money by finding a supplier who's happy to take photos of part of the day rather than the whole thing.
- Pick up the phone – We're a friendly lot and love a good wedding. Let your photographer know your budget, and if your big day is off-season or a last-minute booking, they may be able to put together a bespoke package for you.
- Be realistic – If the company you love is based in Scotland and your nuptials are taking place in Wales, don't be tempted to call and ask them to do a deal. Find someone local so they don't have to travel as far.
- Get creative – Chances are most of your friends will own a smartphone, so if you're tight on money, why not leave the reception images to them? There are some great photo-sharing apps available that will allow your guests to upload their images so you can see them all in one place.
- Priorities – Try to save money in other areas, as your photos will be the only thing that lasts a lifetime.
- Extras – It's always lovely to have a beautiful album, but most businesses don't offer them in a basic package. If you don't have the money, try making your own or purchase one a few months after the big day.
- A few words of caution – Trained professionals can capture beautiful images in what can be a stressful environment. Don't be tempted to ask your loved ones to shoot your wedding unless you're 100 per cent sure they'll do a great job. I've heard horror stories about lost moments and out-of-focus images. It's such a special day and deserves the best you can afford.
Q. How can we keep photography prices down without compromising on quality?
A. Andrew Dowling says: - Photographs are one of the most important parts of any wedding. Look for other ways of saving money, and remember your pictures will last a lifetime.
- If you like a particular supplier and are keen on booking them but can't afford their services, then ask whether they offer an hourly package. That way, you can capture the ceremony and intimate shots without deviating from your budget.
- Keep in mind that most photographers will be booked months in advance and will be looking for a full day's work rather than a few hours here and there.
- Speak to students who are trying to break into the industry.
- Always ask to see a suppliers portfolio before booking.
Q. We're looking for a wedding photographer, but we're a bit worried about booking someone online we've never met. Do you have any suggestions?
A. Clare Price says: - You should always meet your supplier in person before booking. Try to arrange a consultation in their studio or a public place. If that's not possible, try a phone call.
- Ask to see a full album of their previous work.
- See whether they have worked at your chosen venue before. If not, meet at the property before the big day to discuss any ideas you may have.
- If your photographer hasn't shot a wedding at your particular venue, ask whether they've been a second shooter. They may have some images they can show you.
Q. We're getting married next spring, and I'm worried that I won't be able to look natural in the photographs. What should I do?
A. James Matthews says: - Having your picture taken can be a frightening experience. If you aren't comfortable around your supplier, then you're going to feel uneasy on the day. Do your homework and book someone you like.
- Traditional photographers take posed portraits. The quality is usually superb, but this will involve a lot of posing and co-operation from you. If that doesn't sound like your cup of tea, then opt for a documentary photographer. They blend in as much as possible and have minimal interaction with your guests.
- Consider a pre-wedding shoot. This will help break the ice, and by the time your big day comes around, you'll feel more relaxed.
Q. We're getting married in a marquee next February. As the day gets closer, I'm starting to worry about the possibility of bad weather. How do we prepare for this to make sure we still get gorgeous images?
A. Philip Warren says: Some of my favourite weddings have taken place in poor weather conditions, and we've still captured some amazing images.
- Try not to stress, and remember that a good photographer will be able to create memorable shots no matter what.
- Mother Nature can help create magical pictures. Whether you want a fun and humorous vibe or prefer a classic, romantic feel, a rainy day can lend itself to both.
- Soft romantic lighting, circling mist and raindrops will create an effect that you wouldn't get on a sunny day.
- Invest in props such as umbrellas and wellies. Match their shades with your colour scheme or go for a more bold look. These will add a fun element to the day and keep your guests talking.
- If the sun does make an appearance, then you may be lucky enough to see a rainbow.
- Remember, rain means good luck! So don't worry, embrace the conditions and concentrate on the most important thing – marrying the one you love.
Q. We've having a winter wedding and want to capture some festive images but we're not sure what style of photography to choose. Do you have any suggestions?
A. James Matthews says: In the early days of wedding photography there were very few options to choose from. Technology has since evolved creating new styles and as a result some couples are feeling confused and overwhelmed.
One of the most important decisions you'll make is deciding on your preferred style. Festive images generally look best in the more traditional and posed style.
Traditional photographers concentrate most of their efforts on portraits and very rarely capture candid moments. They will direct you and your partner to ensure you get all of the shots you want.
If the idea of posing for long periods of time isn't for you then look for a documentary style photographer.
Q. My hubby-to-be and I are worried about having our pictures taken on our big day. We're not the best posers but would love a few snaps in the venue's gorgeous grounds. Do you have any advice?
A. James Matthews says: The majority of couples I work with feel nervous about their big-day photographs, but try to enjoy the process. I suggest you look at the photojournalist style of photography. This is a popular option with newlyweds who don't want forced or posed images. Your chosen supplier will use a modern camera with fast, high-quality lenses to capture snaps without you even realising they were taken.
A photojournalist will shoot images in a candid style using any light available or with a camera flash. They work quickly and quietly in the background and will have little interaction with you or your loved ones, but most will take group shots if you ask them too!